The Startup of You

Globalization & technology has made the job market fiercely competitive. It is no longer the job market our parents had when coming out of college. The Startup of You by Reid Hoffman, the founder of LinkedIn, has been my guide to planning and managing my career.

Here’s a great visual summary of the book:

Winning People To Your Way of Thinking

In How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleDale Carnegie goes over some timeless principles on how to win people to your way of thinking. Many highly successful people have attributed their success to Dale Carnegie, including Warren Buffet. For me, when I find that my relationships are lacking in any way I go back the following principles to remind myself to what I need to do.

1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. 

2. Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say. “You’re wrong” 

3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. 

4. Begin in a friendly way.

5. Get the other person saying “yes,  yes” immediately. 

6. Let the other person do a great deal of talking.

7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.

8. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view

9. By sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires. 

10. Appeal to the nobler motives. 

11. Dramatize your ideas. 

12. Throw down a challenge.

Meeting Mark Zuckerberg

This past Thursday, I got the opportunity to meet with Mark Zuckerberg and ask him some questions about his personal life at a Q&A at Facebook HQ. Here’s the video from the Q&A. You can see me ask Mark about his daily habits as well as the advice he would give his younger self at 33:30 Min in the video here.

 

Check out the pictures below:

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Q&A with Mark Zuckerberg
Q&A with Mark Zuckerberg

WWDC14

This past June I had the opportunity to attend Apple’s World Wide Developer’s Conference. This year, Apple did something different. They decided to pick the attendees for this year’s conference through a lottery system. I was lucky enough to get picked.

It was my first WWDC and I had no idea what to expect. For me, the highlight of the event was meeting my heroes. I was able interact with people whose work I admired from afar. People like Jonny Ive, Marissa Mayer, Tim Cook, Eddy Cue and Phil Schiller.

For me, it was quite surreal to meet these folks but after having a conversation with them you realize they are just as human as you.

Perception & Success

I recently found a lost video of an event that I hosted at my company’s office back from June 2010. When I founded Chillik Media back in June 2010 out of a business plan competition at my University, I was introduced to Sunjay Nath. Since then, I have built a mentorship relationship with him.

Here’s the presentation he did on “Perception and Success” at Chillik Media offices:

 

Intro

Hello and welcome to my personal blog! This is where I plan to share some of my adventures in traveling, entrepreneurship and life. This blog will mainly be a place for me to document my journey and where I improve myself as a writer.

You are welcome to give me feedback in the comments or if you would like to connect with me personally feel free to shoot me an email at zabiddin@me.com!

 

 

 

Top 10 Lowest & Highest Value of Time

Lowest:

  1. Things other people want you to do
  2. Things that have always been done this way
  3. Things you’re not usually good at doing
  4. Things you don’t enjoy doing
  5. Things that are always interrupted
  6. Things few other people are interested in
  7. Things that have already taken twice as long as you originally expected
  8. Things where your collaborators are unreliable or low quality
  9. Things that have a predictable cycle
  10. Answering the telephone

Highest:

  1. Things that advance your overall purpose in life
  2. Things you have always wanted to do
  3. Things already in the 20/80 relationships of time to results
  4. Innovative ways of doing things that promise to slash the time required and/ or multiply the quality of results
  5. Things other people tell you can’t be done
  6. Things other people have done successfully in a different arena.
  7. Things that use your own creativity
  8. Things that you can get other people to do for you with relatively little effort on your part
  9. Anything with high-quality collaborators who have already transcended the 80/20 rule of time, who use time eccentrically and effectively
  10. Things for which it is now or never

 

Adopted from “The 80/20 Principle” by Richard Koch