Slow Dance

Have you ever watched kids

On a merry-go-round?

Or listened to the rain

Slapping on the ground?

Ever followed a butterfly’s erratic flight?

Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?

You better slow down.

Don’t dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won’t last.

Do you run through each day

On the fly?

When you ask: How are you?

Do you hear the reply?

When the day is done,

do you lie in your bed

With the next hundred chores

running through your head?

You’d better slow down.

Don’t dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won’t last

Ever told your child,

We’ll do it tomorrow?

And in your haste,

Not see his sorrow?

Ever lost touch,

Let a good friendship die

Cause you never had the time

To call and say, “Hi”?

You’d better slow down.

Don’t dance so fast.

Time is short.

The music won’t last.

When you run so fast to get somewhere

You miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and hurry through your day,

It is like an unopened gift

thrown away.

Life is not a race.

Do take it slower.

Hear the music

Before the song is over.

– David L. Weatherford

 

The Hero’s Journey

In Joseph Campbell’s The Hero with a Thousand Faces, the idea of what makes a hero has been examined through comparing myths and frameworks from different religions and belief. Here’s a video that does a pretty good job of explaining it:

 

 

BMW HackTheDrive

This past weekend I took part in a hackathon by BMW here in San Francisco. The goal of the hackathon was to come up with a consumer app that best utilizes the BMW i3 Car Data & various partner technologies. Our team came up with an app that uses data from your phone’s sensors and your car to give you a score based on your driving performance and incentivizes users on good driving using real life awards such as insurance discounts. Overall, it was an it was amazing experience and our team walked away with $10,000 for the best use of ZenDrive Technologies.

 

Theming Your Days

As an entrepreneur, it’s a constant challenge to make sure you’re prioritizing your time effectively. I’ve tried many time management systems but the one that’s been working pretty well for me has been one that was recommended to me by Jack Dorsey, the founder Twitter & Square.  For me here’s how I structure my week:

Monday: Business Development & Finances

Tuesday: Product Development

Wednesday: Sales & Marketing

Thursday: Affiliates & Partnerships

Friday: Culture & Recruiting

Saturday: Personal Development/ Hobbies / Spending time with Family & Friends

Sunday: Getting ready and organizing for the upcoming week.

By having different themes for my days this way, I feel that I can proactively focus on the things that matter rather being reactive. Also, having routines and rituals for each day allow me to avoid decision fatigue. Here are some of the tools that I use consistently.

Trello: Personal & Business task & project management.

LiftApp: Forming new habits and tracking existing ones.

SunriseApp: Scheduling meeting and planning my week

What are some your strategies for staying on top of your game? What are some productivity hacks you use?

Put your answers the comments below:

The Startup of You

Globalization & technology has made the job market fiercely competitive. It is no longer the job market our parents had when coming out of college. The Startup of You by Reid Hoffman, the founder of LinkedIn, has been my guide to planning and managing my career.

Here’s a great visual summary of the book:

Winning People To Your Way of Thinking

In How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleDale Carnegie goes over some timeless principles on how to win people to your way of thinking. Many highly successful people have attributed their success to Dale Carnegie, including Warren Buffet. For me, when I find that my relationships are lacking in any way I go back the following principles to remind myself to what I need to do.

1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it. 

2. Show respect for the other person’s opinions. Never say. “You’re wrong” 

3. If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically. 

4. Begin in a friendly way.

5. Get the other person saying “yes,  yes” immediately. 

6. Let the other person do a great deal of talking.

7. Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.

8. Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view

9. By sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires. 

10. Appeal to the nobler motives. 

11. Dramatize your ideas. 

12. Throw down a challenge.

Meeting Mark Zuckerberg

This past Thursday, I got the opportunity to meet with Mark Zuckerberg and ask him some questions about his personal life at a Q&A at Facebook HQ. Here’s the video from the Q&A. You can see me ask Mark about his daily habits as well as the advice he would give his younger self at 33:30 Min in the video here.

 

Check out the pictures below:

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Q&A with Mark Zuckerberg
Q&A with Mark Zuckerberg